What Help is Available?
Computer Safety
Computers can be great resources, but they also
store information that can give clues about your Internet and
other online activities. It is impossible to clear all of this
information.
If you are in immediate danger please call 911. If you are afraid
that your computer activities may be monitored, please use a
safer computer and call your local hotline or the NYS Domestic
Violence Hotline at 1-800-942-6906 (in Spanish
1-800-942-6908).
Safer computers can be found at:
- A friend's home or at work
- A domestic violence program or a rape crisis program
- A public library or an Internet Cafe
- New York Public Computer Centers
How to Help Protect Your Privacy Online
Please note that the information on this page is meant to provide general guidance and awareness, as computer technologies are regularly evolving.
- E-mail - Emails are not confidential; they can be traced even after you have deleted them. Instead, call a hotline and ask for assistance in figuring out next steps. If you still decide to use email, doing the following things can help you protect your privacy:
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- When setting up your email account:
- Do not check off the box "Remember my Username" or
"Remember my password."
- Avoid including information that could identify you in your
email address, such as your name.
- Use a password that is easy for you to remember but hard for
others to guess, as anyone who guesses your password will have
access to your private correspondence.
- Do not check off the box "Remember my Username" or
"Remember my password."
- Do not share your password with anyone. If at any point you
do, change it.
- In email correspondence, avoid including information that
your partner/former partner may be able to use against you.
- After deleting messages from your sent box or inbox, empty
the "trash can" or "deleted items". However, be aware that after
taking these steps, messages can be recovered from your email
service provider.
- When setting up your email account:
- Internet browsing - No matter what you do,
it is impossible to clear all of the traces of information stored
inside your computer from your internet activities. It is
possible for someone with physical or remote access to your
computer to discover where you have been on the Internet. If you
are afraid that someone is monitoring your computer activities,
please use a safer computer.
- Social networking sites, chat rooms, mailing lists, bulletin boards and
newsgroups - Some ways to help protect your privacy and
be safer while using these resources include:
- Not trusting anyone with your personal information. It is
impossible for you to know whether your partner, or someone known
to your partner is also participating.
- When setting up your login name/username, avoid using information that could identify you such as your name or your email address if it has your name on it.
- Not trusting anyone with your personal information. It is
impossible for you to know whether your partner, or someone known
to your partner is also participating.
References and Additional resources:
- National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV) - Internet Safety Tips
- National Online Resource Center on Violence Against Women (VAWNet)
