What Do Professionals Need to Know?
Traumatic Brain Injury and Domestic Violence
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Screening for victimization
Routinely screening all new or returning clients
(regardless of their age, economic status, gender or sexual
orientation) for domestic violence will help you identify victims
of domestic violence as early as possible, so that you can:
- Better understand their experience.
- Take safety into account in planning how to help them.
- Make any time spent in residential rehab also a time for safety planning.
- Work with domestic violence advocates to
build safety planning into strategies for living with a brain
injury.
Provide privacy, to make it safer for the client to
disclose abuse. If you need an interpreter and one is not
available, it is better to postpone screening. Never use anyone
accompanying the client as an interpreter, including
children.
You may have to ask about domestic violence more than once, and there are various reasons why a victim might not disclose to you the first time you ask.
- She may not define what happens to her as abusive.
- She may be afraid of what her partner will do if he finds out she has told you what is happening.
- She may be ashamed of what he does to her and blame herself for it – and expect you to blame her for it, too.
- She may not yet trust you to not judge her and to keep her confidentiality. Building trust takes time. As your relationship with her develops, you can talk about how her partner tries to control her, and give her opportunities to open up. Remind her that she can access domestic violence services at anytime, even if she chooses not to disclose right away.
- She may have disclosed to other people who have done things that made her life more difficult, and that has made her wary of telling anyone about the abuse.
Use inclusive language in your screening. Avoid
gender-specific pronouns. Say ‘partner’ until you
know how the client refers to their partner. This will help you
provide opportunities for victims of same-sex domestic violence,
and for transgender victims, to disclose to you.
Put the question in context. “Many of the people we work with have been hurt by their partner or someone else in their family, so we ask everyone about it and encourage people to talk about it, so we can help with that problem as well, and help you find other people who understand what you’re going through.”
